What's a good discrete piercing?

I don't recommend tongue piercings. most people don't like them. I say nose because a lot of girls have them and you cant get a really small stud. As for infection, it depends on the piercing. Surface piercings (anit-eyebrow, hips etc) and microdermals typically have a higher chance but as for like lips, Monroe's, and nose, they're about the same as getting your ear pierced i think.